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Dr. Candise Lin, On Being A Daughter Of China’s One-Child Policy As VBB Launches International Women’s Month!
Dr. Candise Lin was born in Guangzhou, China, a port city northwest of Hong Kong on the Pearl River. Candice earned her BA in Psychology and a Ph.D. in Educational Psychology in America. Recently, she has focused on mentoring Chinese students in languages while utilizing Instagram and TicTok as her classroom. We welcome Dr. Lin to help teach us about women in Chinese culture. Join our conversation as we expand International Women’s Day into a month-long celebration of women’s achievements as we learn from women born, living, or working outside the bubble of the West.

VBB 231 Kimberley John-Morgan: Advocate for Anyone Facing Social Isms!
Kimberley John-Morgan is a strong, unapologetic voice for historically excluded communities subjected to social isms — racism, sexism, classism, ableism, heterosexism, and other forms of oppression. Through her writing and equity education sessions,…

VBB 230 Elizabeth Leiba: What It Means When A Black Woman Says I’m Not Yelling!
Elizabeth Leiba is a college professor and a passionate advocate for Black businesswomen. Elizabeth authored I’m Not Yelling: A Black Woman’s Guide to Navigating the Workplace” as a resource to encourage savvy Black businesswomen navigating a…
VBB | Our Why
This Idea That Feminine is Weak(er), Stops Here!
Humanity — based on our narrow understandings of the sexes — has perpetuated a misguided belief that Feminine is weak. And, that women by her nature, are the weaker.
We (Christopher and Heather) don’t roll with that!
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VBB 219 Blythe Hill — Reluctant Hero In A Dress!
In 2009, a young student, Blythe Hill, challenged herself to wear a dress every day throughout December. Every December since, more people have joined Blythe’s challenge, which has become an international cause fighting to end human trafficking….

VBB 218 Taron Puri – His Soulutions Approach to Resolving Life’s Most Challenging Issues!
Taron Puri is a former Immigration Judge turned Podcaster, Author, Spiritual Guide, Mentor, and Healer specializing in connecting individuals, entrepreneurs, and organizations to Soul-lutions! Taron’s Inside-Out strategy helps clients connect to their…

VBB 217 Kristen Donnelly – The Hidden Dangers of Tolerance & Empathy!
Kristen Donnelly (MSW, M.Div, Ph.D.) is an award-winning, four-time TEDx speaker, international empathy educator, and researcher with two decades of experience in helping people understand the beauty in difference and the power of inclusivity. Kristen…

VBB 216 – Ansa Edim Shares Dating Horror Stories Turned Invaluable Life Lessons on Self Love!
Ansa Edim entered the treacherous world of dating apps after her ten-year relationship ended in divorce — she was 28. Since then, Ansa’s been navigating single life as a self-proclaimed fat, black social activist — the ultimate unconventional match….

VBB 215 Sasha Cagen on her Memoir titled Wet — a Story of Healing through Sensuality!
Sasha Cagen is an executive and personal coach with a focus on women’s empowerment. She’s also the author of cult hit books Quirkyalone: A Manifesto for Uncompromising Romantics and To-Do List: What Our Lists Reveal About Us. Sarah was once a Silicon…

VBB 214 Sunny Swearsky: Her Holistic Approach to Healing From The Trauma of Child Sexual Abuse!
Sunny Swearsky is a Sexual Assault Crisis Counselor, Reiki Master, and Life Coach. She is also a disruptor of the traditional medical model of healing from sexual abuse and trauma. Between the ages of 3 and 11, Sunny was sexually abused by an uncle….
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